What is that need for connection about? Why do we seek connecting with others so intensely? Why do we attempt to destroy it, or ourselves around it, in some cases.
The need for connection, for connecting to another, is about igniting, enlivening and feeding the spark of infinity. That spark is the magic and mystery that is within each of us. Nothing more needs to happen than just simply being in the presence of, in presence with, another to activate infinity within. By activate I mean bringing that which can never be extinguished to the forefront of our being. Activating means that somewhere inside of us we are able to sense, feel, perceive and know in some way the infinite nature of what we are.
Word of Awareness: This doesn’t mean that it will be conscious, but it will be felt in some way.
Something else to understand is The key reason we search for that spark of infinite and experiencing it through another person. We do so, search for it through another, because we have lost the sense of it for ourselves.
What To do?
The human will need a reason to connect with another because, at the human level of existence, we generally cannot simply be ‘in presence’ without the definition of a reason or motive for doing so.
What would you say, as a human, to someone who comes to stand by you and just stands there and nothing else? No introduction, no questions asked… just standing next to you. What if the person were to say, “Hi. I just want to be in presence, next to you.”? Most people would get a little nervous, even if they don’t show it. All sorts of things could pop up in the mind as to the who, what and why of this person and what to do about it.
“I just want to re-ignite infinity for a moment because I have lost my sense of it.” How would that make you feel? How would it feel if you were in the grocery line and, having said that, the person would just keep shuffling along next to you as you moved up in the line? And how would most people feel and think and respond if you did so yourself? There is likely to be some questioning going on within, and maybe some amount of dis-ease growing.
So the human finds reasons for being ‘in presence’. And the stronger the inner sense that this spark will be fed, the stronger the desire to connect, to be ‘in presence’, and to create a reason for doing so.
A Turn for the Worse
The drive for that ‘ignition of infinity’ can, unfortunately get rather violent and does. Why is that, if we are in search of the most incredible part of the core of our being?
This is because when one cannot find, feel, know, sense, identify or track down that spark of infinity for themselves from within to begin with, angst starts to come up. That angst can turn into desperation. Desperation takes hold and turns the person towards any action to either squelch or ignite that spark in anyway possible.
It can take the form of a silent desperation that leads to an inner turmoil. This inner turmoil goes from hopelessness to despair. It attempts to extinguish the expression of life, of the physical self, because of the pain felt at not finding that spark from within.
In the Light of Infinity
When we have a sense of our infiniteness, we may not have a full realization of that. It may just be an inkling. In feeling the aliveness it brings, we seek to grow it, experience it, and relish in it all the more. To do so, we often seek others and connecting with them, although it is quite possible to find it simply by connecting deeply to ourselves. It may be at 3 in the morning that the yearning comes. It may be after a long tiring day when nothing seems to go right.
When we are able to feel and find that spark within, we can enliven it by enjoying life, thus bringing more of it into the present moment. Whether through connection to another or -better- finding it within, we are reaching for more of that infinity. Connecting with it within as well as with those who are aware of their own spark is fun and enlivening!
The Reason for Life
The more we sense our infinity, the more ease there is. It’s not that the issues of our lives clear up instantly. It’s that we move through whatever is before us with grace and ease. Knowing that part of ourselves, our infinity within, is the magic of life and the mystery of who we are!
Struggling to be who we are, is not what we are here for. We are here to bring form and expression to the spark of infinity. This takes place in who and what we are. That in turn is taken into what we do and how we do it. Life is really that simple.
The spark of infinity is the “why of being” .
The “doing” is for the expression of that spark and how we experience the why of being.
It’s not that your spark of infinity, or eternal flame, can ever go out. It just feels that way because the human self has lost sense of it.
When You Feel Disconnected from Infinity
The next time you feel the need for connection, the desire, drive to do so, or even the lack of it; The next time you feel low, feel off track, alone and overwhelmed, take a moment to imagine the following.
Imagine you, your soul, is like a sparkler. In that moment of need, it is like the sparkler has gone out. Take a deep breath in and imagine a match being lit. See it relighting the sparkler and reigniting your soul’s eternal light. Breath into that sparkle and that light. Feel that light grow within and fill you up. No need to do anything else, just letting yourself breath more fully and feel that sparkling light within you for as long as you wish. Simply let it grow more and more, lighting up all of you and lighting up all of existence, burning to eternity!
You are infinite! You are eternal!
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